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Your choice of name is disgusting. Doesn't matter what color he is, how would you feel if someone was so pathetically racist towards you?

Layla86 - the OP is probably a retarded little child who doesn't get to leave her house often because they urinate all over themselves in public. So I apologize on it's behalf. OP - If your sister is happy with a black boyfriend, then let her be. Obviously you parents raised her with no values. So there is no point in blackmailing because it would cause more drama. So I suggest you keep your pathetic mouth shut.

@GolMaal you say obviously her parents raised her with no values... is that just because she is dating a black guy?! You don't even know the character of this guy, he could be a very polite, respectful, and intelligent person! The parents may not be happy, but that does indicate a lack of values for the sister ;)

Dating a black guy dictates how failed her parents were to raise their daughter? Dating a black guy dictates that the poster has no values? I politely disagree with Layla and Goragorarang here. Sure, the guy can be the most polite person ever. I have friends of african decent, and my mom gives him $20 each time she sees him (you know, the brown thing mostly old aunties do!) not that my mom's an oldie, but she loves to give him that. She says to him that he has amazed her a lot by being the human being he is. So maybe, the poster HAS all the values of a desi/brown, and maybe even those values that teach us equality.

Oh..I'm sorry.. i meant the poster's sister HAS all the values.....

HAHAHAHA!!! "blackmail"...LOL!

blackmail....ur own sister....sickening!!!

Wow guys, all I said was the OP was completely out of line in their name. I am willing to throw that to immaturity. I didn't say anything about anyone's values. So leave me out of that.

Ya Hearthrob, Layla and I were the ones standing up for the khala, what comments were you reading?

"The parents may not be happy, but that does indicate a lack of values for the sister ;)" was said by goragorarang. so..i don't see where you were standing up for the person. lol nothing for Layla that I said..

haha o man, my bad, what a bad time to accidentally leave out a word... I meant to say DOES NOT indicate, my apologies

If her parents had raised her with any values. She would look for a boyfriend who shares those same values. I'm not saying Kalas are bad, he could be a very nice guy. However if she respected her family and culture she wouldn't be dating a kala. Think about...what are her parents going to do for festivals ? Diwali/Eid? It will be very weird, both families will feel awkward. So Let the OP's sister date a black guy, why don't you go ahead and date one too. I am sure your parents won't mind. UNLESS her parents are white washed, in which case she should not post here.

@GolMaal - it is foolish to assume just because he was born outside of her culture he could/would not be understanding or supportive of it. Just go to Universities with sophisticated culture studies programs, GoriTV, or even the Hindu/Christian homes in Goa. If you care about each other truly, you can make the cultural integrity of both parties more fulfilling and bonding by exploring and educating with each other.

@goragorarang.. haha..yeap i guess every word ways a tonne in an arguement. but its ok. So you're off the list as well, and i guess, my initial comment does become partially useless. @GoldMaal..The true and proper brown values teach us equality. Which you certainly do not understand. Sure it may not be the most wonderful thing the girl might be doing going against her parents' wishes, but..you cannot call her value-less, or a person with no culture! The world's first and foremost religion, value, culture is humanity, and equality. If you don't follow that, forget what Lord Ram said, or Krishna in Gita, or Jesus, or Allah. None of them wanted discrimination, and now everyone only looks at and goes for the colour. And unfortunately, the 'Blacks' or as you guys say 'kalas' are the lowest. Do you realise what a person goes through when it comes to getting cornered by others? Im sure if you're brown you must've experienced racism against you. Or you may not have experienced it maybe you write off the brown community in front of others. I do not know - just an assumption. Do not take me as firing at you at all, but if any of that is true, it could apply to you. We all are not here just defending the brown community and the desi-ness, we're also defending what brown community teaches. And no where it has taught me to discriminate against others. I have friends of all sorts of background. I'm sure alot of us do here. We are not the only 'traditional' ones. And please do not just consider everyone who goes for a different community guy/girl that they have no values, or their parents may not have instilled proper values. One common sentence and teaching parents give to every child is: "Daughter/Son, whoever you choose, or consider that they are the right person for you, make sure they are going to keep YOU happy for the rest of your life. We'll not be there 30-40 years from now, BUT, its you and your partner who will live together. Make sure the person you choose, is not someone who you will have fun with today, BUT also someone who you can grow old WITH, and who you can have conversations with when your kids are gone to school, or they are married and the two of you are alone at home." It's not just the brown community, this thing is said by every parent of every community. And I think, that - "the person who is right for you will walk with you in the hottest of weather through the crowded areas and will not complain that you sweat or you stink. Your hearts need to be one, and bonded.

My sister and I would never blackmail each other. We stand up for each other and protect each other. I can't imagine doing anything that would hurt my sister and it disgusts me that anyone would. Also, I completely disagree with GolMaal. The two families might appreciate participating in and learning from a new culture, instead of feel "weird" and "awkward."

Alright now. I'm the person who posted this post and I was really upset with my sister when I posted this.But when it got approved we were all fine and making a joke about it. The truth is that her boyfriend is a really nice guy and "nigga boy" is his nickname and hes okay with being called "nigga boy". And our parents raised us with great respect and value, so did you ever think that hmm... maybe they'll accept him because their daughter loves him? My sister and I are really close and she knows that I would never ever blackmail her.

Awesome. exactly my point in #14. Parents want the children to be happy. If the guy loves their daughter and assures that he will keep her happy, which parent won't accept it?

lol, everyones comments here are hilarious. Desi parents are traditional, they arent as modern as our generation is. They were raised in different cultures. Everyone should try and understand that. Obviously they'll hate the fact that their daughter is going out with some black guy. They'd hate it no matter who he is UNLESS he's indian and of the same culture. White, black, Asian it doesnt matter what ethnicity, i bet this persons parents would still object. And it might be that in this situation blackmail means the person plans on using it as a defence if his/her sister tattles.

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