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Today, I'm a successful 31 year old lawyer but I had to get married to a woman because I could never come out to my parents as being gay. I will now live my life as a lie for society, religion and my parents. TMDL

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You cant have a career which deals with justice and do injustice to both, you and your wife...specially her. I know you aren't doing it deliberatly. But if can make a POST here on TMDL, why cant step up lil further. Khud be sad rahoge ...I mean not only will YOU be sad but her....and the chain reaction continues. I dont know whats the family planning going to be, but its gonna be sooo hard after the kids come. They dont deserve this...actually no one does. Since the marriage is new..try your best if you can...so sorry, I know its not easy at all. I wish you all the luck.

#1 - Aug 23, 2010 10:28 AM by champ4k_lal
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u shldnt have married her :(....try talkin to ur parents and ur wife......GOOD LUCK!!!

#2 - Aug 24, 2010 08:44 PM by desi 123
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You should first explain to your wife (very gently) that it has nothing to do with her and that she deserves to know the truth. Then explain to your parents that you could never be truly happy with a women, they'll mosy likley be very very pissed off... AT FIRST, but dont worry cause you are there son and deep down your happyness is MUCH MUCH more important to them then wat a bunch of bitch aunties have to say about it. - Hope it works out for the best.

#3 - Aug 26, 2010 04:27 AM by Deepika
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You made this choice. You need to take the responsibility for your actions that are now affecting so many other people. Honorably talk to your wife and if she asks it: let her divorce you. You cannot hold her back from a fulfilling life with a selfish desire to satisify your guilty concious. Trust me, you will feel better when you express your honesty for yourself to those who you love.

#4 - Aug 27, 2010 03:15 AM by Layla86
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Ask lord for forgivness, forget about your past and start a vibrant and healthy life with your wife. :))

#5 - Aug 27, 2010 06:22 AM by AhmedFayyaz
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I am not going to advise you on what to do and what not to do. But I do want to wish you, your wife, and both of your families all the very best - come what may.

#6 - Sep 28, 2010 07:05 AM by felicity2110
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Try telling your parents and wife very gently. Don't live a lie. good luck!

#7 - Nov 28, 2010 11:50 PM by maru
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YOU REALLY SHOULD TELL THEM. GOOD LUCK!

#8 - Jun 9, 2011 06:57 PM by ...
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