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This is more of an FML. Seriously your life is going to suck if you chose to actually stay with him after his irrational demands! Not to mention after him deceiving you.

You don't have to listen to him. Besides when it comes to the kids thing, I love how he thinks that not only can he choose the genders but that you have to have them. Put a lock on the bedroom and don't let him in until he gets his head out of his butt. Otherwise most goverments will allow for an annolment.

what he trying to do, build his own army or build his own cricket team?

i still cant believe some people still have old desi mentality n its pisses me off i highly recommend that you should live with your husband in another house or something so his parents cant say any thing.

well you let him know that; he shall be home straight after work- and the work STAYS at work, he will be eating no takeaways- only home cooked currys and rotis, the moment you have the second child your moving out- grandparents can come for small visits but not with the attitude that their word is final on the kids, and you will feed, clean and dress the kids but as for fieldtrips, discipline and homework help, it's his responsibility and finally if he wants you managing the household, then no-one will interfere with your managing- not even his lovely "umi-ji"...typical desi men like that usually break after they experience some of their WIFES' irrational demands....i say give it 2 years tops, he'll bounce to your beat. ;)

Hearty Congratulations !!!...sorry to hear that OP, I hope your hubby does change his mind. Trust me..after the first baby he will. A woman is called a HOME MAKER for a reason, he must realise it. As far as the do's and dont's, its just temporary, since you are newly married. Its his parental pressure on him. After a while he will himself request you to wear the clothing you like. Hey guess what even I want 12 kids, but only 2-3 biological. Rest I will adopt. But again, with complete consent of her. Wish you beautiful married life ahead. God Bless!!

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