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Today, a white boy asked me out and I refused him because I am Muslim. He laughed and said "I know you probably have really strict parents, but you brown girls always have secret boyfriends!" I wish people would understand that not every desi girl is like that. TMDL

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ha ha ha Desi l0v3 mubarakan !!

#1 - Jul 2, 2010 01:02 AM by champ4k_lal
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They do honey. This guy is a littl naive or insensitive to even say that. Don't let it get to you. I am proud you stood by your principles.

#2 - Jul 2, 2010 01:52 AM by Layla86
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Sounds like the guy was just making a last ditch effort to get a date, not trying to be insensitive. I give him props for having the courage to ask you out, that's not an easy thing to do, especially a gora asking out a desi girl!

#3 - Jul 2, 2010 07:50 AM by goragorarang
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oh whateverrrrrrr

#4 - Jul 3, 2010 02:07 AM by imma desi:
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Thanks layla. For telling all of us girls out there who aren't like that, that your proud we stand by our principles. And as for the OP- I'm sorry you were forced into an image people have of AbCDs in America. Even most Abcds aren't like that.

#5 - Jul 3, 2010 11:52 PM by Priyam
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I'm proud of people who refuse to be hypocrites Priyam. She refused him on religious grounds. I can respect that even if I don't always agree with it. At the end of the day the OP has to be at peace with her faith. I'm glad she is smart enough not to get in a relationship, regardless of the nature, then come back to say she can't continue it because of how she feels about her faith. There are a lot of Desis who do that and it's just abhorant. If she did not feel like religion was the issue and wanted to date this guy, but said no because she was not allowed to date by her parents, I'd still respect her for that action too.

#6 - Jul 4, 2010 12:10 AM by Layla86
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Don't let it get to you. I am proud you stood by your principles.

#7 - Jul 18, 2010 08:55 PM by
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hey i applaud u for giving it a shot anyway. the goris all bullshit our men n pretend they love them then ruin our culture like this - http://awayfromourheritage.blogspot.com/search/label/non%20celebrity%20goris%20-%20action%20needed?updated-max=2008-08-04T06%3A12%3A00%2B05%3A30&max-results=20 http://awayfromourheritage.blogspot.com/search/label/for%20informational%20purpose http://awayfromourheritage.blogspot.com/search/label/cults so just be glad ur NOT a western girl. anyway here's hoping u find another gora who understand u. go get a good gora n make our desi men see why we r so good, so they stay away from the goris....

#8 - Jul 21, 2010 06:55 AM by Sikandarnirmal
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