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awwwww......now you know why he is not dating a desi like you, coz he might come across a narrow minded upstuck person like you. I mean seriously, what the hell does that have to do with relationship, likeness, love etc. As if every desi gal is an angel right??? I mean look at you....who the fuck would wud want to date a limited thinker like you. If you have probs with this ...guess what........go back. Dont just generalise people like this. Many of them are waaaaay better than you.

dam dat is true. how could u think like dat. i mean i used to think da same way wen a person of my race married sumone of another but den i grew up hope one day u do too. good luck with that. peace

I agree with champ4k_lal, that's just pure hate on a girl you don't even know just cuz shes not desi.

I bet you stared the Poor Guy down like he had some kind of disease because thats what Indian girls do when they see an Indian guy with a white girl.

lol sdhami

Omg yaar champak she dosent mean that way nvm u won't understand

Yaar Pinky tu nahi jaanti. Acha you only tello, what did she mean. And why would I not understand memsahab huh :-l

Well she means that if all the attention goes to the white girls then who will pay any attention to us desi girls that's why she's sad he's dateing her

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While that is possible, I doubt that is what she meant because she states that she was not interested in him, so I don't think attention is on her mind. It sounds like she just thinks its bad for him to be with a gori and not a desi girl. No matter how you put it, this girl seems to be a racist yaar

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update your profile with your message, i'll post it for you..or wait. :P

I know a Desi lady who has reactions like Miss Wrong Choice. It can seem like some kind of goofed-up racisim, but that's not quite it...

With girls like her, it's something like this:they never got much positive reinforcement, and they don't have a sure sense of intrinsic worth. Maybe a precarious sense of contingent worth, based on their looks... and that's only maybe. ...

...so they may not feel sure of being as worthy and appealing as *White* girls. Why, they are not sure of being as worthy as other 'fairer' Desi women! So when they see one of their men with a White woman, this insecurity is confirmed: of course a Desi man will bolt for a White woman, given half the chance, right? ...So this is an issue of self-image, not of the image one has of others. I've known some nasty racists who grew up in the end. But the womjen I've known with this problem never changed much: they kept hurting, and they spread the hurt around. Just wait, Champak-jii, until a girl throws something like this at you: 'Whom are you fooling? You don't 'love' me -you have merely settled for me!'

WELL EXCUSE ME .... Its very common & OK for DESI GUYS to WHORE around with gori's before marriage and everything its all fine and dandy .... and when the desi guy gets ready to get married what does he want ? HE CLEAN UNTOUCHED DESI ORIENTED GIRL ....... i dont think there is any rascism in this post ... the girl is just getting her point across GOT ALL YOU DESI GUYS Cuz everyone and there mama's knows that a Gori will give it up to anyone and yes even to a desi ch ch ch ...

mrs junaid, while what you said may be true, how do you know this desi guy is fooling around with this white girl before marriage and not wanting to marry her? Not all desi guys are whores and not all desi guys want to settle for the "untouched" desi girl... just like not all gori give it up to anyone lol how would you feel if a white girl said a terrible racist stereotype about desi girls??? Not very good I would imagine, so maybe you shouldn't throw stones if you live in a glass house ;)

Sry guys, but i comp agree with mrsjunaid...ask any desi grl or their parents..every1 knos a majority of desi guys f*** around before they decide to settle down..n this jus makes it hard for us desi grls to find a decent guy or as we may put it "the one"...theres nothin wrong with the poster's comment..i think grls will understand this post more than the guys...

What i think she means is ke itni achi desi larkiyan hai toh baesti hai humare liye agar koi larka gori k paas jaye. ek lakh lakh pardesi girl lekin aint nobody like a desi girl ;)

LOL i totally agree with you sukdeep ... and as for goragorarang im comment is strictly based on stereotype ok becuz then why would this site be created ? to talk abt everyday desi life and desi parents ???? not everyone is the same its just streotype im not saying all desi guys are like that and all gori's are whore but come on my comment was based on FACTS not just pointing at one agenda..... and 2nd of all desi girls being FAIR ? HELLO i dont know where you live but honey anyone that has FAIR pale white skin WANTS OLIVE SKIN GORI'S pay buckets of money for tanning beds and what not ? they want to look tan ... we desi chicks are god given TAN and have WAYYY BETTER EYES....

It is mostly true that our desi guys f*** around whether it be with a gori or another desi and thn whn getting married it is to an "untouched, bharatyanaari" but I dnt think the desi girls are less cuz they do it aswell! And as far as this comment goes, I agree with champak lal tht this girls got some really narrow mind thinking!! You don't see someones colour, race, religion etc before you fall in love...it just happens! And yes I hate the fact that desi women want to be fair whn they have gorgeous skin! The most beautiful women are Indian!!

HMMMM....sala ab kispe line maaru......lolololol.....in any case I will be called as whore=P.....gayi bhains water mein. Screw that...desi or non-desi...I just want 2 things in her>>>>> sense of humour and common sense. Oh teri...I mistakely typed this on TDML instead of my matrimonial page=)).

Let me just say that I totally agree with champ4k_lal. It pisses me off to hear such a narrow minded comment.

champ4k, the girl has to be desi or she will have a crap sense of humour. and if shes ugly, then your kids will be ugly. and my bestfrend whos a guy ses a guy should always marry a beautiful girl because he has to see her face for the rest of his life :L

Mehak what kind of friends do you have? Like seriously "a guy should marry a beautiful girl cuz he has to see her face for the rest of his life" what kind of bullsh*t is that? Yea you'll be seeing eachother for the rest of your lives but honey your face ain't gonna stay the same forever. There's a thing called aging and oldage!! Hope your 'kam akal Vaal dost' knws this!!

nahi yaar Mehak..if the kids are ugly..its not just HER fault..my genes will also contribute re. As far as I am concerned...I am straight winner for Mr.Ugly 2010 and rest of all the years. For me to even think that I should have someone beautiful, will be injustice towards the gal. Plus I always wanted a good conversationist instead of someone with looks. BTW...you friend is your friend with you just coz of looks...if you have a pimple or something on ur face...I guarantee he wont even address you in public or try to avoid you as much as possible. I still want only those two things....Common sense and sense of humour. As far as Only desi being humourous....dont agree on it completly...infact MOST of them are sophisticated (not all) ofcourse its not a bad thing. The ones I have met are actually non-desis.

Mr. Ugly?? Listen Mr. CL- a pet peve of mine is ugly v beautiful. Beautiful and ugly are terms of one's whole persona. When I think of beautiful (maybe I'm wierd) but I think of the inner person. The person who can make me smile, the person who brightens my day with their happiness and shares it. The beautiful person is someone truly good. I don't even notice the person's outer appearence when i first meet them. I judge them the way the talk, behave, and act. The type of person they are. All other stuff comes later. So, Mr. ugly, you're looking pretty beautiful so far...

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of â

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of beautifulnessâ

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of â

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of beautifulness. And trust me who â

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of â

And trust me who â

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of â

grr my post isnt sending. :@ Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of â

Anmol what I mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. He should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day every1 has their diferent version of â

right heres my attempt to post again. anmol what i mean is that the guy should find the girl attractive. he should find her beautiful whether the world does or not bcuz at the end of the day evry1 has their different version of beautifulness. and trust me woh 'kam akal wala guy' is the smartest person i know. champ4k ji trust me my friend doesnt jugde me just by my looks. us ne mujhe sb se bure haal me dekha hua hai like jb mere eyebrows bushy hote hai :/ i don't think im very pretty (even tho ppl think im gorjus :/) and im soo self concious like other girl but i hardly wear any make up on a daily basis because i want people to seee the real me and like me for that. aur woh joh mera friend hai, i lied woh mera bf hai and we're gona get married soo... lol bt shhh..i don't reli want to talk about that lol :P

and OMG champak yar i can't believe what u just said. me ne apko dekha nahi but i kno ur a reli good guy. i don't think you should judge yourself. you should be proud. mere paas ao me apka makeouver kar lau ge phir ap tiptop lage gaye lol JK, jus bcz u don''t have to fit the 'goodlooking guy' image doesnt mean your ugly. im sur you dream girl will come in your life soon and she'll think ur the most handsome in the world.Smart girls look for guys who care less about materialistic things like looks and more for important things. I used to judge people by the looks but you know handsome people break your heart the most. Your soo smart im sure youâ

you'll giv ur wife loads of happines. as for the conversationists me toh us par master hoon lol. abu gets heart failur jb woh fone bill dekhte hai ;) girls love talking so u wont hv a problem with that. and yh non-desis can be funny lekin desi laugan ka joke sunana ka alag tareeka hi hota hai haina?SO MR BEAUTIFUL CHILLAX :D xx

aww Mehak..you're so nice. i like you! I agree with everything you said in post number 40 especially...it sounds just like me when I read it... =P

Actually your post posted like a million times so don't worry I got what your saying. I do agree so some extent with what your saying all I'm saying is your looks won't be staying with you foreve but your inner beauty and personality will. Congratulations for you guys soon to be married couple! And yes mr champak ji! You are in no way ugly!! We all love listening to your insights an how passionate you are. Your one of my favorites on this site! So I'm gonna say the same thing that mehak said just chillax!! X-D

Bachaooooooooooooooooooooooooo !! suffering severely from diabetes :( :(. You guys are so sweet yaar, sala apun ko diabetes hoing. Mehak, Priyam and Anmol...you all are sweethearts and Red bull of this site. Thankyou for being so sweet and kind. God bless you all. Mehak memsahab....apun ko makeover ke liye aane ku mangta....sala kya kya change karung LOL. Manufactoring defect hai... =)) =)) =)). BF ko sorry boling apun, Galti se mistake ho gaya :P

soz anmol im lyka retard lmao :L and champ4k apko mere skills ka pata nahi abhi :) uski fikar na karo wo nakama hai me waise use bully karti hoon lol :L like chaurau champak I LOVE YOU YAAR AAP DESI HAU lol and if ur mote thn aur bhi acha hai i love mote laug :L. mera bf kau 6 pack banane ka shauk hai :( nakama :(

and guys lets nt talk abwt da marij thing because abhi 'rents kau nahi pata ok :/ and imm soo popular, toh agar mere koi janane walon ne dekh liye toh... :)

and im only 15 and a half so abhi bht time hai.

Omg your actually only 15 1/2?!? Wow and you already know that your gonna marry him? Good for you! Hope that all works out for you :)

yp if it woz up to me, me abhi shadi kar lu, but my mom would disown me n he sed to study further soo inshALLAH. who posted tht?

i go to med school and they indian girls here get pissed even if i compliment a white girl in a decent way. if anything its cute

kya zaroorat hai white girl kau dekhni ki? lol seroiusli white girls r pretty loadz of my best friendz r white lekin desiyon ki toh alag hi baat hai. so next time. desi larkiyon ko compliment dena ;)

and what cuts #51?

i mean cute

champak lal the whole world is better than an inconsiderate fucker like you

lol...hey atleast you *considered* replying on my comments isn't it? Dont REGRET for what you PERMIT.

read this and be glad u feel as u did because ur real desi (hugs u) http://awayfromourheritage.blogspot.com/search/label/non%20celebrity%20goris%20-%20action%20needed?updated-max=2008-08-04T06%3A12%3A00%2B05%3A30&max-results=20 http://awayfromourheritage.blogspot.com/search/label/for%20informational%20purpose http://awayfromourheritage.blogspot.com/search/label/cults

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